"Yes, I've seen much of it here as well. I've tried helping until I realized something. They don't want help and they won't accept it until they know they need it. I pretty much just ignore it now until I'm in a position to act on my feelings."

OOC: Ah, I just ignore them. It gives me too much of a headache to deal with all of that anymore. I'm sure you'll have to handle a LOT more of it than me as a waitress.